I signed up for hip hop classes on my phone, still in bed, first thing in the morning — a multi-month commitment to get into something I’d never tried, decided. I’d been walking by the studio for months, thinking, I should sign up for something. And then one day, in late August, I opened my eyes and the decision was already made.

It’s like that sometimes, you get a clarity and something falls into place. You see what’s right…